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The High Price of Conflict
We’ve all seen it happen. Suddenly the team that functioned so harmoniously is operating more like a dysfunctional family. The office’s usual cheerful buzz has been replaced by a dark silence. People seem to do nothing but complain. Some won’t even speak to one another.
As a result, progress has slowed. Projects may even have stalled.
Once your workplace was like Cheers, where everybody likes to go and everybody knows your name. Now, thanks to employee squabbles, it’s more like Arrested Development.
If your workplace has come down with a case of employee conflict, you are not alone. A study by the Society of Human Resource Management found that HR managers spend up to 60 percent of their time dealing with employee disputes.
These disputes can begin with policy disagreements, misunderstandings about responsibilities, or clashes of personality or work style. But without proper management, simple workplace disagreements can escalate into full-blown battles.
The results can be disastrous, causing a loss in productivity, lowered morale, turnover and attrition. Employee disputes can even lead to costly legal action–or can negatively affect your company’s reputation.
We would all like to be able to resolve office disputes like Judge Judy, clearing the air with wise pronouncements and leaving once-squabbling employees wondering why they disagreed in the first place. But the truth is that managers are humans too, and the toxic environment created by employee conflict may cause supervisors to feel anxious, angry or fearful. Managers may react in one of the following ways:
The problem is, all of these responses will only make matters worse.
You CAN manage conflict
The good news is that conflict is normal–and if you feel uncomfortable or anxious about dealing with conflict, that’s normal too. But with the right approach, you can defuse employee conflict and rid your workplace of the toxic environment it creates. In the process, your employees will learn to manage their own conflicts–and head off future battles. And you’ll all get to know each other better–potentially leading to renewed energy and creativity in the workplace.
Four Steps for Managing Conflict:
1) Get everyone together. Begin by assembling all antagonists. Don’t meet with people individually; this is something you must solve together. Give each a few minutes to present his perspective and opinion. Nobody is allowed to interrupt, and everyone gets equal time.
2) Set the Rules of Engagement. Begin by letting all parties involved know you will not take sides and are committed to ensuring resolution. Express your confidence in their abilities. Then set the following ground rules for discussion. You may need to return to these rules and reinforce them during the meeting.
3) Make changes. Finish the session by committing to concrete changes. Is there some point on which everyone agrees? Use this as a starting point. If there is no area of agreement, focus on a common long-term goal and begin from there. Come away from the discussion with concrete steps each participant will take toward resolving the conflict.
4) Review progress. Once commitments are made, set a time to review progress. Hold participants–and yourself–accountable for living up to commitments. And don’t forget to congratulate employees on progress. Even if things aren’t yet perfect, improvement should be acknowledged.
The Payoff for Well-Managed Conflict
Workplace conflict resolution is hard, and isn’t accomplished in a day. But over time, it will yield significant benefits.
The Domino Effect
Successfully managing conflict has a positive domino effect, allowing managers to create a workplace where employees thrive:
Addressing workplace conflict may sound scary and hard. And it is. But it’s critical for the success of your company–and as a manager, you’ll reap benefits many times the effort you invest.
Effectively Managing Conflict in Your Workplace
By CPS Recruitment on July 12, 2013 in career advice, clientadvice, Employer tips, Job Satisfaction, Maintaining Relationships, Positive Attitude, Productivity, Teamwork